I promise cigars. But here is a close up of the guy to the left of JFK. This photo is credited as being at Hyannis.
Ok, I will get back to the central thesis. But no promises that we don’t circle back.
A number of events coalesced. First, I have a huge day on Monday that I have been working on for 6 years, and we are all praying that it ends with a cigar. Then I got this great email from a reader/author here who sent me a link to an article he wrote about cigars here, it was fantastic. I have been meaning to write about cigars. Yesterday I had a cigar with a friend who has taken to reading the site and we talked OCBD’s for half an hour, it was fantastic. It feels like fall, better cigar weather. And so forth.
I started smoking cigars at 14 with two friends, Todd and Mike, on Sunday afternoons in Rhinebeck NY. Todd had a driver’s license and a car so we bought Swisher Sweets and drove around and wrote a variety show that would up being a fundraiser for our church. We called ourselves The Stogie Bros. That should paint a picture. In high school I worked pretty much full time so Sunday afternoons were precious and I learned, you spend your precious free time doing that which adds joy.
In my late 20’s I joined The Cigar Club in Greenwich. I was “sponsored” by a friend I have lost touch with, and we would meet (no more than a dozen of us) at The Greenwich Cigar Store which was owned and operated by Jimmy. One of us each week had it catered, everyone had their own bottle and we sat either outside on the sidewalk in folding chairs or inside on leather couches, smoked and drank from 7 – 10 every Friday night. No exceptions and no new members, I was the last. Never forget – one night we were sitting there and there is a crazy knock on the door. It is a woman, frantic. I was the newest and youngest member so I had to get up, I open the door, she pushes in. “Does anyone here have a plane? I need a plane. Does anyone here have a plane,” she said. She didn’t really ask it, she said it. So I asked it. “Why do you need a plane?”
“My gardener was cleaning our greenhouse, he fell through the roof and severed off his arm. He is at Greenwich Hospital right now but there is a surgeon in North Caroline who can reattach it if we can get him down there now -”
That’s a big ask. One guy gets up and walks over to the phone while the rest of us watch. He calls, mumbles, hangs up. “Go to Westchester Airport, Hangar 17 (I am making that number up) and there will be a plane and a pilot ready for you.”
Those were rarified air times, but the gentleman did give a plane.
Cigars and Ivy go hand in hand because, of course. Blah blah blah. Here is a truth about cigars, though, and it is a truth they share with Ivy clothes. They are authenticators. Truth serum of character.
Here is a man who smoked cigars, and had the best cigar quote ever in a movie:
You can also tell when someone is not telling the truth about cigars. Demi Moore is attributed with this quote in Cigar Aficianado: “I like the flavor. I like the taste. I enjoy the smell of a good cigar. It relaxes me. It’s a great social activity, because there’s something about smoking a cigar that feels like a celebration. It’s like a fine wine. There’s a quality, a workmanship, a passion that goes into the making of a fine cigar.” No you don’t. Cigars are horrible social activities, unless you are in the company of other cigar smokers. And it is lazy to call wine “fine” anymore. I am not saying she doesn’t smoke them, I have no idea, but I am saying that she didn’t say THAT.
I know, Einstein smoked a pipe too. And I am not sure why Freud is twerking. But I do know this, they are authentic cigar smokers. That always adds to the experience for me. When I am nervous, I light a cigar. When I am relaxing, I light a cigar. The people I associate with who smoke cigars really smoke a cigar. There is an intention to the lifestyle that I really admire. As opposed to people who use cigars as props. Cigar Cosplay.
Finally, my all time favorite aspect of cigar smoking. When one is deliberate about letting others know they are doing it, they are enjoying it, and they won something, even if it is just a day.